Indifference to Daycare Graduation Gifts... A Man's Attitude of Avoiding Dating Expenses

A case of a man showing an attitude of avoiding the burden of dating expenses while also being indifferent toward a woman's child was covered on broadcast. In the video of episode 13 of the JTBC entertainment program 'Love War', the issue of paying costs occurring during the dating process and the man's attitude toward the child's anniversaries appeared as major conflict elements.

Attitude Toward Dating Expenses and Anniversary Gifts

According to the conversation of the participants in the video, the man in question showed behavior of not paying the costs incurred during the dating process. As a specific example, a situation was mentioned where they met on a Saturday and had a meal using meal kits and other items. At that time, the meal cost was around 14,500 won, including gelato and can boxes, but it was reported that the man did not pay for it.

Furthermore, differences were revealed in his attitude regarding gifts. The cast pointed out that while the man does not expect large amounts in gift-related situations, he showed no sign of showing minimum sincerity on anniversaries such as Christmas. Mentioning a situation on November 25, 2025, it was noted that even in a situation where children were carrying gifts, the man did not perform actions such as buying Christmas gifts.

"Daycare Graduation Happens Once in a Lifetime"... Indifference Toward the Child

In particular, the man's attitude toward the anniversaries experienced by the woman's daughter became a controversy. Although a child's daycare graduation is an important event that can become a lifelong memory for the child, the man dismissed it as "just one of the days that passed every day." Regarding this, the cast raised questions about the man's attitude, stating that daycare graduation is a once-in-a-lifetime event. They emphasized that while divorce or marriage can happen multiple times, a child's daycare graduation is a special day that remains as a lifelong memory while taking photos.

This reaction from the man resulted in emotional wounds to the woman. The cast analyzed that for the woman, who had felt grateful that the man showed affection to the child, it ultimately caused greater hurt by making her realize, "In the end, he is not my daughter's [father/person]." The core of the conflict was identified as the lack of minimum sincerity, such as preparing a wrapped gift for about 30,000 won at a toy store for the child.